Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh

Creating World Peace | One Relationship at a Time

Love by Design | Available Now

Are you ready to build the relationship you deserve and desire?

If you feel dissatisfied or disillusioned in your romantic partnership, you’re not alone. Many of us were raised with the idea that true love means finding our “other half” and that a spark is the best foundation for successful long-term partnerships and marriages. We drive ourselves crazy chasing that feeling… but what if our understanding of what makes a strong coupledom is flawed?

I am fascinated by the way  connections work. I am most passionate about exploring how they lead to meaningful and fulfilling relationships, the way they help us grow, how they contribute to our awareness of self and others, and how all of these could be seen similarly and differently across relationships, cultures and organizations.

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The person who was “spontaneous and exciting” becomes “irresponsible.” The person who was “nurturing” becomes “overbearing.” 

Sometimes one person still finds a certain quality attractive, but the other, who once possessed that quality, no longer identifies with it in the same way anymore. 

The problem isn’t that we, or our partners, have changed. The problem is that we expected that neither of us would!!!

When we think our partner is going to remain a static entity, unchangeable and unchanging, forever providing us with the same benefits we have come to expect and rely upon, our ability to see our partners, and to have them see us fully in return, will be dimmed.

#lovebydesignbook #relationships #love #thrive #attraction #emergentlove

The person who was “spontaneous and exciting” becomes “irresponsible.” The person who was “nurturing” becomes “overbearing.”

Sometimes one person still finds a certain quality attractive, but the other, who once possessed that quality, no longer identifies with it in the same way anymore.

The problem isn’t that we, or our partners, have changed. The problem is that we expected that neither of us would!!!

When we think our partner is going to remain a static entity, unchangeable and unchanging, forever providing us with the same benefits we have come to expect and rely upon, our ability to see our partners, and to have them see us fully in return, will be dimmed.

#lovebydesignbook #relationships #love #thrive #attraction #emergentlove
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In our research, it became very clear that the contribution and distribution of these ingredients cannot be one-directional: They must be both expressed and experienced. 

Remember, Emergent Love is based more on what you do than how you feel.

#lovebydesignbook #relationships #love #thrive #attraction

In our research, it became very clear that the contribution and distribution of these ingredients cannot be one-directional: They must be both expressed and experienced.

Remember, Emergent Love is based more on what you do than how you feel.

#lovebydesignbook #relationships #love #thrive #attraction
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Are you going to be CAMFT Annual Conference? Come say hello!
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Are you going to be CAMFT Annual Conference? Come say hello!
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Ian Kerner @iankernerlmft urges people to find ways to center pleasure and become more creative and resourceful in this area of their relationships. Watch the full conversation on my Youtube channel. Link in bio.
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#emergentlove #couples #lovebydesignbook #love #relationships

Ian Kerner @iankernerlmft urges people to find ways to center pleasure and become more creative and resourceful in this area of their relationships. Watch the full conversation on my Youtube channel. Link in bio.

#emergentlove #couples #lovebydesignbook #love #relationships
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I will be in conversation with @enagoski on live stage in London, UK!

Get your tickets at @how.to.academy [howtoacademy.com] before they sell out.

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#lovebydesignbook #love #relationships #couples #emergentlove

I will be in conversation with @enagoski on live stage in London, UK!

Get your tickets at @how.to.academy [howtoacademy.com] before they sell out.



#lovebydesignbook #love #relationships #couples #emergentlove
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“From bedrooms to boardrooms, my mission is simple: I help people make sense of their connections and communicate to the world around them.” 
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#lovebydesignbook #relationships #emergentlove

“From bedrooms to boardrooms, my mission is simple: I help people make sense of their connections and communicate to the world around them.”
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#lovebydesignbook #relationships #emergentlove
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